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Post by flighty on Mar 6, 2011 16:41:03 GMT -8
I quit. I've had enough of this crap, and when I tried to tell Enigma- politely- that her repeating everything Holly said was getting a little annoying, Holly attacked me and, when i said that I was quitting because I'd had enough of it, she called me pathetic.
So. June, unless you can get everyone to respect their staff and actually dish out punishments, I'd like to be made a regular member again, or else I'll just leave the site altogether. I'm sick of being shoved around by everyone, and whenever I try to stand up for myself, I just get screwed over for it.
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Post by Kathryn on Mar 7, 2011 8:34:40 GMT -8
Hey Flighty! ^-^
It's unfortunate that this had to happen again, and I wasn't around to back you up =/ I'm not being mean or blaming you - or anything like that - but the rest of the staff appear to be getting respect. I think it's something to do with you, not the members, because this is the second time now. Remember what the guide I wrote said? Respect must be earned; power doesn't equal respect, respect equals power.
It seems like you might be taking your Mod powers the wrong way, if I may add. I still don't believe that Juniper is doing anything but what she should be. You can't expect her to have your back 24/7, because though the Mod team support each other, sometimes we have to discuss things that we don't necessarily agree on. Do you see what I'm saying here?
Again, I'm not blaming you, but like I said, this is the second time. Perhaps you are talking too aggressively to them; making them feel like you're coming at them from behind with a dagger, and they feel the need to retaliate, which only agitates you to talk back. It seems to be true from what I've seen so far.
I think you should lie low for a while and just see what happens. Calm down, dear~
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Post by flighty on Mar 7, 2011 16:16:09 GMT -8
... You aren't blaming me, but yet you're saying I'm the reason? That's blaming, Kat. And I was polite about it, and Holly just attacked me for it.
And tell me, how do I go about earning respect that no one is willing to give. hm?
I'm not the reason here, Kat, and blaming me for it isn't going to help. Rather then shove everything on me, maybe you should try to HELP.
And I THOUGHT I said I wanted to quit!!!! Just make me a damn member if you think I'm abusing my power. I'm sick and tired of always being shoved around all the time, and then when I try to stick up for my self like a good little person should, you just growl at me and rip my throat out and it sickens me.
I'ev had enough of it. Instead of blaming me all the time just because it happened twice, actually stop and think before you say something hurtful like that. Aren't admins supposed to be friendly and helping rather then insulting and putting people down?
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Post by Kathryn on Mar 8, 2011 9:49:16 GMT -8
Easy, easy! I’m not blaming you. What I said was my thoughts that your attitude toward others may be affecting how they treat you. Now I’ve talked to Holly and she admitted that she did call you pathetic – she’ll be given a reminder about how to respect others, but apparently you drew a knife on yourself, or so I’ve been told, and had to be taken to hospital. I’m not going to pry into that because it’s none of my business. But I’m not shoving everything onto you. I politely told you that you are acting a bit too aggressive when you talk to others; and you’re making it worse on yourself by insulting Juniper in the Chatbox. That’s not what it’s there for, and because it’s so open, other people get uncomfortable. I can understand your frustration at everything that’s been going on and I think you’re under some stress where you are. Yes, Administrators are meant to be friendly, but on top of that, so are Moderators and right now you’re acting somewhat rude. I am trying to help, but what I say is taken the wrong way, and I don’t want to stop trying to help and be told that I’m not even trying. Stay calm and just talk to me about things, alright? I’ve not once growled at you, I’m being as patient as I can, but if you read through your posts just now, you are the one being aggressive. Now I’m not saying that in a bad way, but you need to stop and listen to what other people have to say a bit more Maybe that would help~
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Post by flighty on Mar 8, 2011 12:28:27 GMT -8
Telling me that my attitude is the problem is blaming me, Kat.
And I've only been acting sharply because that's how you guys are acting to me. Don't dish out what you can't take.
And your definition of "helping" is my definition of blaming. Just so you know, I'm not going to talk to you about things if you're going to blame me for everything. I have stopped to think about other people's views, and it's time for YOU to take your own advice. You're being extremely narrowed minded right now, and that's why I have absolutely no respect for you anymore.
You are treating me like an incompetent little kid and I don't appreciate it. I didn't join Augury to be screeched at for my attitude. I joined to have FUN and you are sucking the fun out of it for me. STOP BLAMING ME and STOP PICKING ON MY ATTITUDE. Leave my personality the hell alone. It's none of your business, got it?
Yeah. I can be rude when I want to, but don't you DARE try to change me because all that shit'll just hit you in the face
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